Comments on: Don’t worry be happy http://lifecruiser.org/odditys/2006/02/23/dont-worry-be-happy/ Swedish humor travel in the nature with useful odditys, love, food, photo Wed, 01 Nov 2006 08:45:43 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.4 by: Lifecruiser http://lifecruiser.org/odditys/2006/02/23/dont-worry-be-happy/#comment-501 Fri, 24 Feb 2006 14:44:42 +0000 http://lifecruiser.org/odditys/2006/02/23/dont-worry-be-happy/#comment-501 <strong>Skye:</strong>You too... it seems like it's a lot of us experiencing the same thing here. I'ts a negative loop and they don't seem to be able to get out of it or even want to get out of it. This is making me even more convinced that we have to begin to tell them about this more honestly. Try to make them to see what they're doing and what the consequences are. Maybe ask them frankly if they don't want to be happy and take it up from there. <strong>Veracity:</strong>Thanx for your kind words :-) <strong>TN Chick:</strong>Yes, they do, but I decided to not let them do that without comments about it from me anymore from now on! I will TRY more to open their eyes for that they only hurting themselves and refusing themselves a LIFE. And that they will wake up someday and regret this... Yeah, we will keep spreading the happy plague :-) Skye:You too… it seems like it’s a lot of us experiencing the same thing here. I’ts a negative loop and they don’t seem to be able to get out of it or even want to get out of it. This is making me even more convinced that we have to begin to tell them about this more honestly. Try to make them to see what they’re doing and what the consequences are. Maybe ask them frankly if they don’t want to be happy and take it up from there.

Veracity:Thanx for your kind words :-)

TN Chick:Yes, they do, but I decided to not let them do that without comments about it from me anymore from now on! I will TRY more to open their eyes for that they only hurting themselves and refusing themselves a LIFE. And that they will wake up someday and regret this…

Yeah, we will keep spreading the happy plague :-)

]]> by: TN Chick http://lifecruiser.org/odditys/2006/02/23/dont-worry-be-happy/#comment-500 Fri, 24 Feb 2006 13:12:06 +0000 http://lifecruiser.org/odditys/2006/02/23/dont-worry-be-happy/#comment-500 Some folks DO enjoy being miserable and some enjoy it even more when they can bug others about it... not I... Keep spreadin' that happy happy joy joy! Some folks DO enjoy being miserable and some enjoy it even more when they can bug others about it… not I…

Keep spreadin’ that happy happy joy joy!

]]> by: Veracity http://lifecruiser.org/odditys/2006/02/23/dont-worry-be-happy/#comment-499 Fri, 24 Feb 2006 05:44:26 +0000 http://lifecruiser.org/odditys/2006/02/23/dont-worry-be-happy/#comment-499 Thanks for passing by my blog and for the birthday wishes! You have an interesting blog too with lots of positive insightful views... :eek: Thanks for passing by my blog and for the birthday wishes!
You have an interesting blog too with lots of positive insightful views… :eek:

]]> by: skye http://lifecruiser.org/odditys/2006/02/23/dont-worry-be-happy/#comment-498 Fri, 24 Feb 2006 05:29:17 +0000 http://lifecruiser.org/odditys/2006/02/23/dont-worry-be-happy/#comment-498 MrsL, you're one smart cookie, ain't ya? :smile: I have this friend who is negative ALL the time. Actually, I'm not sure I can even call her a friend anymore, because her negativity has pushed me away. The funny thing is that when I was first getting to know her, I didn't notice that side of her. I distinctly remember us laughing so much when we'd go out to dinner that people would actually stop at our table saying they wished they had eating with us instead of their family. I don't know where that side of her went or how to help her to get it back. But like you said, I think it's a choice you have to make yourself. Choose to be happy, and you will be. MrsL, you’re one smart cookie, ain’t ya? :smile:

I have this friend who is negative ALL the time. Actually, I’m not sure I can even call her a friend anymore, because her negativity has pushed me away. The funny thing is that when I was first getting to know her, I didn’t notice that side of her. I distinctly remember us laughing so much when we’d go out to dinner that people would actually stop at our table saying they wished they had eating with us instead of their family. I don’t know where that side of her went or how to help her to get it back.

But like you said, I think it’s a choice you have to make yourself. Choose to be happy, and you will be.

]]> by: Lifecruiser http://lifecruiser.org/odditys/2006/02/23/dont-worry-be-happy/#comment-495 Thu, 23 Feb 2006 23:17:14 +0000 http://lifecruiser.org/odditys/2006/02/23/dont-worry-be-happy/#comment-495 <strong>Sisiggy:</strong>Yes, it sounds like you're experiencing similar things that we are, so that's how this post was born. We ought to make them to understand this. Difficult yes... <strong>Walker:</strong>Yes, there you have some really good examples of what I meant with the post... But they should be pointed out to what they are doing and instead begin to think of what they could do (and have).... Sisiggy:Yes, it sounds like you’re experiencing similar things that we are, so that’s how this post was born. We ought to make them to understand this. Difficult yes…

Walker:Yes, there you have some really good examples of what I meant with the post… But they should be pointed out to what they are doing and instead begin to think of what they could do (and have)….

]]> by: Walker http://lifecruiser.org/odditys/2006/02/23/dont-worry-be-happy/#comment-494 Thu, 23 Feb 2006 22:39:32 +0000 http://lifecruiser.org/odditys/2006/02/23/dont-worry-be-happy/#comment-494 I have someone staying here right now who is unhappy. In fact she is unhappier that unhappy. Normally she is unhappy only and that is the norm for her. I think some people like being unhappy all the time for the attention. People end up trying to make them happy all the time thus the attention. My sister in law is the same way with deseases the woman is a walking medical journal.. I think its all about being the focus of attention for mant such people. I have someone staying here right now who is unhappy. In fact she is unhappier that unhappy. Normally she is unhappy only and that is the norm for her.
I think some people like being unhappy all the time for the attention.
People end up trying to make them happy all the time thus the attention.
My sister in law is the same way with deseases the woman is a walking medical journal..
I think its all about being the focus of attention for mant such people.

]]> by: sisiggy http://lifecruiser.org/odditys/2006/02/23/dont-worry-be-happy/#comment-493 Thu, 23 Feb 2006 21:48:33 +0000 http://lifecruiser.org/odditys/2006/02/23/dont-worry-be-happy/#comment-493 I was explaining this to a relative of mine the other night. He was once again whining about all that has happened to him and all he is going through and I didn't understand because everything always goes my way. I pointed out that the same things happen to everyone, including me, but we just choose not to focus on it, take it out on a regular basis and mull it over. We choose to move on. And depression gives you a great excuse to not even try to succeed and not have to face failure, which everyone has to face now and then. I was explaining this to a relative of mine the other night. He was once again whining about all that has happened to him and all he is going through and I didn’t understand because everything always goes my way. I pointed out that the same things happen to everyone, including me, but we just choose not to focus on it, take it out on a regular basis and mull it over. We choose to move on.
And depression gives you a great excuse to not even try to succeed and not have to face failure, which everyone has to face now and then.

]]> by: Lifecruiser http://lifecruiser.org/odditys/2006/02/23/dont-worry-be-happy/#comment-492 Thu, 23 Feb 2006 20:36:39 +0000 http://lifecruiser.org/odditys/2006/02/23/dont-worry-be-happy/#comment-492 Hrm, dear miss Ass. I suspect that you may be given the answer some day in your Daily horoscopes, since they seem to be so unbeleivable accurate all the time!!!! Hrm, dear miss Ass. I suspect that you may be given the answer some day in your Daily horoscopes, since they seem to be so unbeleivable accurate all the time!!!!

]]> by: Miss Ass.Lifecruiser http://lifecruiser.org/odditys/2006/02/23/dont-worry-be-happy/#comment-491 Thu, 23 Feb 2006 19:47:49 +0000 http://lifecruiser.org/odditys/2006/02/23/dont-worry-be-happy/#comment-491 Of course I'm alive! Like you know..been knocking on heavens door more than once..but..they won't for some strange reason let me in!!! So.. Here I am...still trying and trying and trying... flying and flying...Just wondering..where am I suppose to land????? Of course I’m alive! Like you know..been knocking on heavens door more than once..but..they won’t for some strange reason let me in!!! So.. Here I am…still trying and trying and trying… flying and flying…Just wondering..where am I suppose to land?????

]]> by: Mrs Lifecruiser http://lifecruiser.org/odditys/2006/02/23/dont-worry-be-happy/#comment-490 Thu, 23 Feb 2006 18:34:12 +0000 http://lifecruiser.org/odditys/2006/02/23/dont-worry-be-happy/#comment-490 <strong>Miss Ass.Lifecruiser:</strong>Yes, you would be one of them that really knows about this better than any one else! You've done it over and over again.... and you're still going strong - ALIVE. *shaking my head in disbelief* <strong>Dave:</strong>Yes, I thought so too when I read your post, they're touching the same subject. Liked your post very much. So true, so obvious, but it's often the obvious that is overlooked for some strange reason.... Miss Ass.Lifecruiser:Yes, you would be one of them that really knows about this better than any one else! You’ve done it over and over again…. and you’re still going strong - ALIVE. *shaking my head in disbelief*

Dave:Yes, I thought so too when I read your post, they’re touching the same subject. Liked your post very much. So true, so obvious, but it’s often the obvious that is overlooked for some strange reason….

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