Thursday Thirteen Love
♥ All Mr & Mrs Lifecruiser need is Love.
♥ From the day we meet (Dec 2003), we haven’t been away from each other more than necessary - when something forces us to, like a day on the golf course or an appendix surgery or something really important like that ;-). None of us is holding back the other, we just don’t feel whole when we are apart.
♥ We can’t stop showing our Love all the time. As a fact, I think that maybe some people can find it a little too much from time to time. But hey, what can we do, it just comes naturally for us without even thinking about it. And besides that, how do you hold back Love? Should we even think about it? NO.
♥ We have the ultimate Love between us, the one that just fill your whole heart with love bubbles that comes popping up all the time and you just can’t stop them. When the Love bubble bursts you go crazy and attack the other with kisses…
♥ Mr Lifecruiser did the most romantic proposal to me… It was spring (May 2004), in Paris… We were doing some wonderful seightseeing. I noticed that he wasn’t quite himself that day, but I had no idea why. He was thinking of doing the proposal on the top of Eiffeltower, but it was too crowded up there, so he started to get nervous not to find the right place. When we sat down at a park bench beneath Sacre Couer, suddenly the sun began to shine upon us and all the little birds came flying and sat down in the tree above us and started to sing beutifully. That was the magic signal. He went down his knees, looked me deep in my eyes with his eyes full of a vibrating Love, with such carisma that I felt like I was a magnet that was drawn towards him. The red rose, now in my hand, was totally forgotten. There was no other people in our world, despite the fact of all the hundreds of tourists and frenchmen that were on their way to/from Sacre Couer. The air was full of Love. His speach was so beutiful and breathtaking, but I don’t remember a word of it, just his eyes, his mouth saying all these wonderful words, the vibrations of our true Love - and that I answered YES…. And all the kissing that never stopped…
♥ Our Love is the touching type. Even physical touching. We can’t stop to touch each other. There is that heartfire feeling and warm glow around our hands when we meet each others skin. You can really feel the Love in your skin, in addition to the heart. Even on distance. Mae West once said: “If you give a man free hands, he is placing them all over you”. And that’s one of the reasons why I Love Mr Lifecruiser so much:-)
♥ Probably hundred times a day we say the magic words and still don’t get bored of hearing them. It’s the tone of the voice that you can’t be without. It’s like honey for the soul. It comes naturally from the bottom of our hearts.
♥ We are like one person. We never have any problems with each other. Maybe it’s because of the fact that we love us ;-). We instinctly know what the other is thinking and want or need. Nothing is ever too difficult to do for the other, because we Love us and want us to be as happy as possible. Daily we say exactly the same thing at the same time and not only Love words, but words we rarely use, it’s almost scary sometimes.
♥ Our Love is the kind of Love where you can be 100% yourself, even sick and dirty with a very bad hairday on top of that and it doesn’t matter the slightest. As a matter of fact that’s how almost every morning in this house is ;-)
♥ We have freedom in our Love. We don’t force the other one to be or do anything, we do it by our free will. If none of us want to clean the house, fine, none of us do it. No one blaims the other one for anything. We do the cleaning when we feel like it and it’s some kind of random as it happens. What does cleaning really matter compare to Love? If one of us want to do something it’s totally up to us. I’ts OK to do things the other one don’t want or can do, like golfing for example. I must admit that Mr L is not golfing as much as he used to any longer, but that’s not my fault. I’ve tried to kicked him out sometimes, but what to do when he doesn’t want to go?
♥ We make Love and not war, because we’re a team that’s going to make this marriage work. We can’t begin to put up different sides of things we don’t think exactly the same about. We’re not in a competition. We’re not even man or woman - we’re one love couple. That means that we accept the other as we are, tries to understand, communicating with each other to get along with our common goal to keep this fire burning wild.
♥ Life began after we fall in Love with us. The rest of the life began at our wedding day (Aug 2004), the most wonderful wedding we ever could have had. Even many of our guest says that it’s the most wonderful wedding they’ve been to ever and that’s a huge compliment for us. We really wanted it to be a happy wedding for all involved and had fun when we planned it all by ourselves. It was a kind of surprise wedding, since we had decided to (secretly) wear 18th century clothes among other things.
♥ We are best friends, husband & wife- and lovers for eternity. We know that for sure, because we’re going to keep it that way no matter what happens. We both have other very long relationships (20-27 years!) behind us. We know what it takes - and gives. It’s a matter of Love, passion, attitude, maintenance, compromising, communication, compassion. We promised each other from the beginning that we would have 44 years together and then, when we’re 88 and 95 years old, we’ll sit down at the negotiation table and evaluate our passed years - and then sign up for 44 more happy alive years!
♥ LIVE, ENJOY… LOVE… EACH OTHER!
(Don’t miss the Love Letter post down below :-)
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